DRESS ETIQUETTE | MOTHER OF THE BRIDE / GROOM

Deciding what to wear as Mother of the Bride or Groom can be a daunting task! Luckily, we're here to break down the basics and help you navigate what, and what not, to wear as a MOB/G.

Deciding on a dress for your daughter’s wedding can be a very tricky thing. “What colour should I wear, what length should my dress be and what fabric should I choose?” We are here to help with our Mother of the Bride & Mother of the Groom dress etiquette tips.

1. Share what you will be wearing with the Mother of the Groom: There is an old tradition that states that the Mother of the Bride should purchase her dress first and that it should influence what the Mother of the Groom will wear. But this might seem a little old fashioned now, so our advice is to give subtle hints to the Mother of the Groom of the type of colour you are thinking about wearing, it’s not a competition and flexibility is key. You could get your daughter to quietly pass on the details of your dress to the Mother of the Groom, or you could give her a call yourself. The Mother of the Groom might appreciate a little advance notice of what you are thinking of wearing so as to avoid clashing colours, overdressing or any other fashion faux pas.

2. Be thoughtful with colour: There are some colour restrictions that do apply to the Mother of the Bride’s dress; tradition states that you should not choose white and ivory, to avoid looking to close to the bride’s dress, unless it’s a white wedding and all the guests are asked to wear white!

Black gowns traditionally suggest mourning and red gowns were thought to be too flashy, but modern fashionistas know that a little black dress can be very flattering, and a good splash of colour at a wedding can be on-trend and uplifting. So we say choose a colour that suits you and your complexion and is right for the season. Talk to the bride before you start shopping for dresses, if your daughter is cautious about what colour you should wear, then opt for subtle timeless colours such as greys, lavenders, taupes or blues.

3. Consider the bridesmaid dresses. We suggest to check with your daughter, the bride, as to whether your dress should match the bridesmaid dresses. She might want all dresses to coordinate or she might just want the colours to compliment each other. Staying within a colour family could also be the way to go. If the bridesmaids are wearing light grey or lavender, then the Mother of the Bride could try a slate grey or eggplant. The bride might want to have a say about the style, length and formality of your dress so that it coordinates with the bridesmaid dresses so listen to her thoughts and try to accommodate where you can. Most importantly, the dress you choose should be something you will enjoy wearing for that very important day.

4. Start shopping early. Try on some dresses at least a few months before the wedding, and we suggest that you try to make a firm decision of what your Mother of the Bride dress will be at least one month before the big day. This way you will be able to let the Mother of the Groom and the bride know in good time for their planning.

5. Dress suitably. Dress for the time of day that the wedding takes place. If it’s a day wedding and reception then you might want to consider a midi length (just below the knee) or tea length dress (mid calf) in lace or with subtle beading. However if it’s an evening wedding and reception then you may want to dress up more formally - consider more a structured style and fabric with embellishments. A stunning full-length gown or a pantsuit could just the thing!

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Much to the excitement of many of us, Autumn/Winter styles have begun to hit the stores in a whirl of new silhouettes, colours and prints!

From clean line cut-outs to feminine florals, we break down each of our top Autumn/Winter 2019 trends. Plus, get a sneak preview of the NEW glamorous styles from Jesse Harper and Layla Jones coming soon!

THE TREND

Laser cut-outs and mesh inserts kick off the best of 2019 A/W trends! The perfect way to simultaneously look polished and directional, cut-outs add a fashion forward element to any ensemble.

HOW TO WEAR IT

Pair with a simple, plain piece so as not avoid clashing shapes and textures.

THE TREND

Long line dresses are here to stay this season. Midi length dresses can serve as great go-to wardrobe staples for formal outings and for everyday wear alike. This A/W promises an enormous variety of silhouettes and styles to suit all shapes and sizes!

HOW TO WEAR IT

Pair with flat pointies for a chic Autumn daytime look or with classic stilettos for evening looks.

THE TREND

Feminine floral fabrics have landed in abundance and are just in time for for wedding season. Striking contrasting colours make these beautiful prints pop, while superbly cut styles will show off your figure to its best appeal!

HOW TO WEAR IT

Emphasise a particular colour within the print by pairing it another piece of the same shade. Opt for plain colour or be a little more daring by pairing print with print!

THE TREND

Last on list of top A/W 2019 trends are Eastern inspired tops and jackets! A little kimono-esque, these pieces take inspiration from traditional oriental garments and insert a modern and directional edge.

HOW TO WEAR IT

Team this style with clean, sharp lines and other tailored pieces - you can't go wrong with a fitted cropped pant and flat rigid loafer shoes!